tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-272778842024-03-06T02:33:54.142-05:00Jacqueline Whitmore's BlogA few "Whit-Bits" about the world of business and social etiquette.Jacqueline Whitmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15698630827324289405noreply@blogger.comBlogger80125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277884.post-15452834025945689012009-11-18T11:39:00.002-05:002009-11-18T11:41:46.785-05:00Jacqueline's Blog Moves!Thank you for your interest in my blog. I have a new blog now. Please go to <a href="http://blog.etiquetteexpert.com">http://blog.etiquetteexpert.com</a>.Jacqueline Whitmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15698630827324289405noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277884.post-79496605788330637582009-07-23T13:33:00.004-04:002009-07-23T13:41:19.416-04:00An Interview with Jacqueline Whitmore<span style="font-weight: bold;">Interviewed by blogger and jet setter, </span><a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.avapierce.com/2009/07/interview-with-etiquette-expert.html">Ava Pierce</a><span style="font-weight: bold;"> at www.avapierce.com</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">What inspired you to start The Protocol School of Palm Beach?</span><br /><br />For almost six years, I was the assistant director of public relations for The Breakers Hotel in Palm Beach, Florida. While there, I was responsible for promoting the hotel’s special events…one being the Annual Etiquette Camp for Children and Adults. In 1994, I decided to participate in the Etiquette Camp for Adults and I absolutely loved it! The instructor recommended that I take her “train-the-trainer” course in Washington, D.C. so I could receive a certification and eventually teach etiquette to others and eventually start my own etiquette business if I ever wanted to. In 1995, I followed her advice and attended her school and started teaching classes to the hotel staff in my spare time. As fate would have it, my job was eliminated in August 1998 and I immediately started my business. I took my severance pay and purchased a computer, printer and fax machine and my husband and I converted our tiny attic into an office.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">In your experience, what is the most common etiquette mistake made in social situations?</span><br /><br />It’s amazing how many people talk and text on their cell phones while still trying to have a conversation with another person.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">How did we end up on Planet Rude and when is the mothership coming back for us?</span><br /><br />I am an optimist so I believe that people are inherently good…they just don’t get any credit for it. The media also places more emphasis on wrongdoings. That’s why it seems that our society is becoming ruder by the day. I also think that some people simply don’t know any better and don’t realize that they are being rude. After all, not everyone reads etiquette books or grows up learning proper manners. In my opinion, there are many factors responsible for the decline in civility and manners.<br /><br />First, we have lost a sense of “community” that was once experienced by our parents and grandparents. We don’t talk to our neighbors anymore. We don’t work for the same company as long as our parents or grandparents did. We tend to relocate more frequently. We don’t sit down as a family at the dinner table anymore. Fast food has become the norm. We have isolated ourselves, using technology as a barrier or a safety net. People will often say things on the Internet that they would never say to someone’s face.<br /><br />People are overworked, overstressed, sleep deprived and always in a hurry. This causes people to lash out. Long gone are the days where you can pick up the phone to call customer service and get a live voice. Where is the service in that? I could go on and on.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">What’s the most fun part of your work?</span><br /><br />I love having my own business for many reasons but the main reason is it affords me the flexibility to work at home and work as many hours that I want to work. As a result, I can spend more time with my family and friends.<br /><br />I love every aspect of my business – writing, speaking, researching, product development, sales and yes, even accounting. I am an actor at heart and love being on stage. I love making an impact on other people’s lives. My work doesn’t feel like work to me. I look forward to each new day. I am truly living my passion!<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">You’ve met countless celebrities and dignitaries. For jet-setters-in-training who are gradually moving into more exclusive circles, what is appropriate behavior when meeting celebrities and dignitaries (assuming that we can remain conscious and don’t lose our sense of speech)?</span><br /><br />Before I became an etiquette expert, I always thought celebrities and dignitaries were bigger than life, untouchable and were not like you and me. Quite the contrary. Celebrities and dignitaries are just ordinary people leading extraordinary lives. They are just like you and me. They just have bigger houses, drive bigger cars, have a bigger bank accounts and have bigger problems. They work all the time and most have reached the pinnacle of their success as a result of working extremely hard and making sacrifices that the ordinary person wouldn’t make. Their “real” friends are few and far between.<br /><br />I find it’s easier to approach a famous person if you ask someone of importance to introduce you. That person is called a “connector.” You will be viewed as more important if someone the celebrity knows or trusts introduces you. When I was researching famous people to endorse my book, “Business Class,” I did not approach them directly. I found someone who knew them personally and asked that person to make the introduction for me. It was much easier getting an endorsement by using that approach. And once I got one famous person to endorse my book, I used their name to get the second, third and forth endorsement.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">What is the best way to handle rude or snobbish people without unleashing one’s inner bitch?</span><br /><br />First, you don’t want to give that rude or snobbish person more power by fighting fire with fire. My mother always said, “Killem’ with kindness.” This is easier said than done for most of us. For example if I am at a check-out line in the grocery store and the cashier doesn’t say hello or look me in the eye, I will oftentimes look at her nametag, greet her by name and ask her about her day. This simple technique will usually break the ice. Keep in mind that you may be the only person who was nice to that cashier all day because you took the time and made the effort.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">I’m absolutely terrible with small talk. Do you have a suggestion for making great conversation with new people?</span><br /><br />Just last night I attended a birthday party for my friend, Donny. After getting a drink, I sat down at a table with a group of strangers. As soon as I sat down, I smiled and said hello and introduced myself to every person at the table. In turn, each person smiled and introduced themselves. Before I could utter another word the woman next to me asked, “How do you know Donny?” This was an instant ice breaker! Everyone in the room had one thing in common…we were all there to celebrate our friend’s birthday. In short, it’s very easy to start a conversation when you have something in common with another person. If you don’t know what you have in common, you’ve got to ask the right questions and find a commonality. That means you ask a few good opening questions and then shut up. In other words, when you’re listening, you’re learning about someone else. When you’re talking, you’re not learning a thing.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">If someone is invited to a major event, such as a ball or high-profile awards ceremony, but they’re on a limited budget, what would you suggest as appropriate attire to make a good impression?</span><br /><br />I love to shop at consignment stores because I can always find a great outfit at an affordable price. Or if you have a friend with great taste who is your same size, ask to borrow an outfit from them as long as you pay for the dry cleaning bill. If neither one of these suggestions work for you, go out and buy a basic black suit. No need to spend a lot of money. Pair it with a colorful silk blouse and add fun, funky or elegant accessories. Get over the fact that everyone is going to scrutinize your outfit (unless you’re going to be presenting or receiving an award). Most people won’t remember what you wear but they WILL remember the wonderful conversation they had with you!<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">What’s your favorite travel destination and why?</span><br /><br />This is a tough question because I can always find something wonderful to do wherever I travel. I meet more people when I travel by myself. It forces me to ask questions and make friends with strangers. Aside from that, I have to say that one of my most memorable trips was when my husband and I went to Greece on our honeymoon in 1998. Santorini is one of the most beautiful and romantic places on earth! I love the food and the culture. I especially like the fact that no one seems to be in a hurry.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">July is National Cellphone Courtesy Month. What should everyone do to be more considerate of others?</span><br /><br />I founded National Cellphone Courtesy Month in 2002 in an effort to help teach people how to be more courteous while talking on their cellphones.Jacqueline Whitmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15698630827324289405noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277884.post-9451521169711258502009-07-20T23:28:00.001-04:002009-07-20T23:30:21.728-04:00Hassle-Free Summer Travel<div class="discussion"> <div class="description"> <b>by Karen Leland</b>, Guest Blogger<br /><br />If you feel like you’re still recovering from last year’s summer travel season - made memorable by incredibly long lines at the airport, long delays when traveling to visit relatives and poor service at restaurants - you’re not alone. The summer travel season can be one of the most stressful times of the year.<br /><br />To cool down the heat of summer travel try these traveler’s smart strategies:<br /><br />Make restaurant reservations three weeks in advance of any summer holidays. Don’t leave booking that special restaurant till the last minute. Be sure to avoid problems by confirming all restaurant reservations at least one day before. If you have special food requirements let the restaurant know this when you call to make the reservation. Lastly, plan on arriving early for your reservation, this will allow for delays caused by holiday traffic.<br /><br />If your flight is significantly delayed or canceled, don’t stand in line. Instead, use your cellular phone to call the airline directly. They’ll make travel arrangements for you by phone much faster than a harried gate agent with 200 other people in line with the same problem to solve.<br /><br />Get the service provider on your side. Make direct eye contact with the person helping you as soon as possible, greet them with a pleasant “good morning” or and use the word “please” within the first 30 seconds. Use “I” Statements and avoid “you” statements so the service provider doesn’t get put on the defensive. For instance, “I’m frustrated that I can’t get help” works better than “ You are not being helpful.”<br /><br />Ship gifts ahead of time. If you’re visiting family this summer, why stress out yourself and anger other passengers by trying to stuff your gifts in an overhead compartment on a busy full flight? Instead save yourself the trouble by mailing all packages to your final destination at least one week prior to arrival. If you have to take last minute gifts with you, wrap them carefully and check them at curbside.<br /><br />Use the knowledge of the service person to help you solve your problem. If you need help in solving a problem ask the service person “What would you recommend I do?” and then stay silent. By giving them a minute to think about it, they will often come up with a workable solution.<br /><br />Always write down the name of whomever helps you . This way, if there’s a problem later on, you’ll be able to resolve it quicker when you can give the name of the specific person who provided you with the information or a promise.<br /><br /><b>Buy a copy of Time Management In An Instant the week of July 20th and receive a free license to view the Essential Email online course. To buy the book and claim your bonus, or just to buy the book go to: <a href="http://www.quality-service.com/timemanagementinaninstant">http://www.quality-service.com/timemanagementinaninstant</a><br /><br />Karen Leland and Keith Bailey are the bestselling authors of six books including Time Management In An Instant: 60 Ways to Make the Most of Your Day. They are the co-founders of Sterling Consulting Group, which helps organizations and individuals learn how to fight distraction and find their focus in a wired world. For more information please contact: kleland@scgtraining.com</b> </div> </div>Jacqueline Whitmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15698630827324289405noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277884.post-75806003518693447542009-07-06T10:21:00.007-04:002009-07-06T10:47:34.357-04:00Screw Cap Conundrum<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh7iycIPJel4-b3He4Zb4e9_QonrHLlJA7xomv7eWP10S9QA5jmgft6Lt9mvvppOQQGWRcSWoMnhenu4CJ713_YEKEtIaf8CNOGWCaLr2Lv0P2yT5BJcoQ8AcLPrrBUnFmLNmCcmg/s1600-h/Screw+Cap+Wine.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 141px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh7iycIPJel4-b3He4Zb4e9_QonrHLlJA7xomv7eWP10S9QA5jmgft6Lt9mvvppOQQGWRcSWoMnhenu4CJ713_YEKEtIaf8CNOGWCaLr2Lv0P2yT5BJcoQ8AcLPrrBUnFmLNmCcmg/s200/Screw+Cap+Wine.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5355358305888794290" border="0" /></a>If you're a wine lover like me, you've probably noticed that a lot of wines have screw caps instead of corks, especially those from Australia and New Zealand. But what happens if you're having dinner in a nice restaurant and the server unscrews the cap and sets it down on the table? What is the proper protocol for the presentation of a screw-top wine?<br /><br />In the June 30, 2009 issue of <a href="http://www.winespectator.com/Wine/Home/">Wine Spectator</a>, editor-at-large Harvey Steiman had these suggestions. Steiman recommends that, even though a screw cap reduces a wine's risk of suffering <a href="http://www.cellarnotes.net/corked_wine.htm">TCA contamination</a>, it is important that the sommelier or waiter present the bottle itself as he or she would a cork-sealed wine before opening it, so that the customer can verify that it is indeed the label and vintage ordered, and that they give the customer a taste before filling the glasses, to make sure the bottle has not spoiled as a result of excess heat or light or as the result of a (very rare) misapplied cap or dent in the screw top, which could have allowed air in.Jacqueline Whitmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15698630827324289405noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277884.post-29044937623870195812009-07-01T12:17:00.003-04:002009-07-01T12:29:14.056-04:00July is National Cell Phone Courtesy Month<a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/karen-leland/july-is-cell-phone-courte_b_222816.html#comments"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Reprinted with permission by Karen Leland, The Huffington Post</span></a><br /><br />Recently, my husband Jon and I decided to take advantage of some miles we had and treat ourselves to a resort hotel on the Big Island of Hawaii. We were weary from work and the relentless stimulation of technology that accompanied it. Our plan was to spend a whole lot of time by the pool -- and very little talking on a cell phone, e-mailing or watching television.<br /><br />By the second day, I could already feel myself getting into the rhythm of the islands as I sat ocean-side in the Jacuzzi, my head resting on a foam pillow, my hand holding a piña colada -- paradise found.<br /><br />Like a scene out of a totally clichéd Hollywood movie, my eyes were closed and the sound of crashing waves washed over me. Then, a cell phone rang. The man next to me picked it up and began screaming at his stockbroker -- paradise lost.<br /><br />My, how the times have changed. Remember the good old days when there was just a smoking or non-smoking section? Apparently, under the current umbrella of social correctness, you can't smoke at either pool (which I personally appreciate), but you can annoy your fellow vacationers -- at least one of them.<br /><br />According to the ABC Web site, one ABC News "20/20" survey found that 87 percent of Americans said they have encountered people talking on cell phones in public places in a loud or annoying manner. Slightly less than 4 out of 10 often experience generally rude or disrespectful behavior, cursing, near-cursing or people interrupting conversations to use e-mail or cell phone.<br /><br />Jacqueline Whitmore, author of "Business Class: Etiquette Essentials for Success at Work" and President of The Protocol School of Palm Beach, Inc., has made a career of helping organizations and individuals master the finer points of business etiquette.<br /><br />In 2002, she officially founded National Cell Phone Courtesy Month with the intent of making cell phone users more respectful of their surroundings.<br /><br />"Wireless phones and other electronic devices have become so important to keeping people in touch with information they want and need," says Whitmore. "It's important to educate people about the proper way to use these devices so that they're still in touch, but not annoying those around them." According to Whitmore, wireless phone users can take these steps to avoid offending others:<br /><br />1. Be all there. When you're in a meeting, performance, courtroom or other busy area, let calls go to voicemail to avoid a disruption. In some instances, turning your phone off may be the best solution.<br /><br />2. Keep it private. Be aware of your surroundings and avoid discussing private or confidential information in public. You never know who may be in hearing range.<br /><br />3. Keep your cool. Don't display anger during a public call. Conversations that are likely to be emotional should be held where they will not embarrass or intrude on others.<br /><br />4. Learn to vibe. Use your wireless phone's silent or vibration settings in public places such as business meetings, religious services, schools, restaurants, theaters or sporting events so that you do not disrupt your surroundings.<br /><br />5. Avoid "cell yell." Remember to use your regular conversational tone when speaking on your wireless phone. People tend to speak more loudly than normal and often don't recognize how distracting they can be to others.<br /><br />6. Follow the rules. Some places, such as hospitals or airplanes, restrict or prohibit the use of mobile phones, so adhere to posted signs and instructions. Some jurisdictions may also restrict mobile phone use in public places.<br /><br />7. Excuse yourself. If you are expecting a call that can't be postponed, alert your companions ahead of time and excuse yourself when the call comes in; the people you are with should take precedence over calls you want to make or receive.<br /><br />8. Send a message. Use Text Messaging to send and receive messages without saying a single word.<br /><br />9. Watch and listen discreetly. New multimedia applications such as streaming video and music are great ways to stay informed and access the latest entertainment. However, adjust the volume based on your surroundings in much the same way that you would adjust your ringer volume. Earphones are a great way to avoid distracting others in public areas.<br /><br />10. Alert silently. When using your phone's walkie-talkie feature, send the person you're trying to reach a Call Alert before starting to speak. If you're around other people, turn off your phone's external speaker and use the vibration setting to minimize any disturbance and to respect your contact's privacy.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/karen-leland"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Karen Leland</span></a> is author of the recently released books Watercooler Wisdom: How Smart People Prosper In the Face of Conflict, Pressure and Change and Time Management In An Instant:60 Ways to Make the Most of Your Day. She is the co-creator of a new line of Productivity Pads from Time Tamer™ and the co-founder of Sterling Consulting Group and its subsidiary Sterling Marketing Group. You can follow her on twitter at kfleland. For questions, comments or to book Karen to speak at your next event, please e-mail <a href="http://www.scgtraining.com/">kleland@scgtraining.com</a>.Jacqueline Whitmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15698630827324289405noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277884.post-87782360940531579482009-06-30T09:46:00.003-04:002009-06-30T10:00:40.268-04:00President Interrupted by "Duck" Ringtone During Speech<object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/ypHIMqV5jhY&hl=en&fs=1&"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/ypHIMqV5jhY&hl=en&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><br />We’ve all been sitting in a movie, waiting in a line, or sleeping in school, only to be annoyed by a dumb ringtone. For some reason, random people across all generations think that everyone else wants to hear a </span><em style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Boom Boom Pow</em><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> or animal sound ringer. Well, we don’t. Cellphone etiquette is necessary now more than ever and I hope to spread the word during </span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">National Cellphone Courtesy Month in July</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">. Won't you please help me with this critical crusade?</span> <p style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Watch the video above and then remember to switch your ringer to a normal tone, or better yet, silent mode. Listen, everyone occasionally forgets to switch to silent or vibrate, but for the love of BlackBerry, at least have a ringer that won't embarrass you if it went off at a <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ypHIMqV5jhY">Presidential news conference</a>.</p>Jacqueline Whitmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15698630827324289405noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277884.post-24385522945539330592009-06-26T10:22:00.005-04:002009-06-28T21:13:05.657-04:00The Etiquette of Interviewing and Networking in a Web 2.0 WorldRecently, I was interviewed about how to make the best impression in a job interview and in networking situations by <strong>Resume Bay Radio</strong>. To listen to the podcast, <a href="http://www.theresumebay.com/index.php/resume-bay-radio-podcast-with-jacqueline-whitmore/">click here</a>.<br /><br />szw4vjcqkhJacqueline Whitmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15698630827324289405noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277884.post-41475667415862147302009-06-23T20:58:00.006-04:002009-06-23T21:16:02.056-04:00Five Tips for Dressing Like A Jet-setter on a Shoe-string Budget<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqBe-nGqmH9nkqhxCyGbuwWjon8baAnmFA_mrQDIFlzYjtcOz5KyzFl0wlM6VkFjurJxBLxLFnMjVya1oGFnioUkpG0neh_sKoo7sEnljXev9ZQJ4AfYHvk3ugWrLIFeBNl4WgOQ/s1600-h/shopping.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 186px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqBe-nGqmH9nkqhxCyGbuwWjon8baAnmFA_mrQDIFlzYjtcOz5KyzFl0wlM6VkFjurJxBLxLFnMjVya1oGFnioUkpG0neh_sKoo7sEnljXev9ZQJ4AfYHvk3ugWrLIFeBNl4WgOQ/s200/shopping.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5350696653018063106" border="0" /></a><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" >By Ava Pierce, Guest Blogger</span><br /><br />I saw a quote once that fit my life perfectly. It read: “I’m a rich woman trapped in a working woman’s body.” If you’re like me and you have five-star dreams on a three-star budget, here are five tips that can help you dress like an international jet-setter without breaking the bank:<br /><ol><li><span style="font-weight: bold;">Luxury brand outlet stores</span> are great sources for finding expensive clothing and accessories at discounted prices (sometimes up to 75% off). To find outlets in your area, go to <a href="http://www.outletlocator.com/">Outlet Locator</a><a href="http://www.outletbound.com/">Outlet Bound</a>. You can also search the websites of your favorite designer brands – Gucci, Prada, Tory Burch, D&G, etc. – as well as up-and-coming local designers to find their outlet locations. </li><li><span style="font-weight: bold;">Mix and match</span>. Fast-fashion coupled with some lux items can create a really nice look. No one will ever know that you’re wearing H&M, Celine, Zara and Giuseppe Zanotti in the same outfit unless you tell them. </li><li><span style="font-weight: bold;">Accessory rental</span>. There are quite a few websites and stores where you can rent designer handbags, sunglasses, jewelry and watches. Here are a few resources to get you started: <a href="http://www.bagborroworsteal.com/">Bag, Borrow or Steal</a>; <a href="http://www.frombagstoriches.com/rentbag/pc/index.asp">From Bags to Riches</a>; <a href="http://www.kissmybag.com/">Kiss My Bag</a>; and <a href="http://www.rentmeahandbag.com/">Rent Me A Handbag</a>. </li><li>One of my favorite ways to find designer fashions at affordable prices is <span style="font-weight: bold;">sample sales</span>. These events, held in stores and showrooms, offer clothing, accessories and housewares at 50% to 75% below retail prices. Some sample sales are held regularly; others are held only a few times each year. Not all stores and showrooms are open to the public every day so you should call ahead. Websites like <a href="http://www.shopittome.com/">Shop It To Me</a>, as well as <span style="font-weight: bold;">members-only shopping communities</span> such as <a href="http://www.ideeli.com/closed">Ideeli</a>, <a href="http://www.thetopsecret.com/TS/Member/FlashLogin.aspx?ReturnUrl=%2fTS%2fProtected%2fSale%2fSales.aspx">TheTopSecret</a>, <a href="http://www.beyondtherack.com/">Beyond the Rack</a> and <a href="http://www.gilt.com/">Gilt Groupe</a>, offer sale announcements as well as links to online sample sales. (If you’re not yet a member, add your name to their waiting list for an invitation.) </li><li><span style="font-weight: bold;">Trade designer clothes and accessories with friends. </span> Make it festive by having a monthly “exchange party” with some of your close friends. Naturally, you will all agree to take good care of each other’s belongings. </li></ol> What’s most important is to remember that being a jet-setter is not just about wearing designer clothing and accessories. Your style should be coupled with confidence and civility. In other words, always be fabulous, inside and out!<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Ava Pierce is a 30-something jet-setter-in-training who shares her shopping, traveling and socializing resources at <a href="http://www.avapierce.com/">Ava Pierce: The Blog</a>. Whether you’re a jet-setting dreamer or an experienced globetrotter, you can enjoy her Jet Set Tips of the Day as well as her rants and raves about everything from traveling around the globe to learning how to sashay in her stilettos without breaking an ankle. </span>Jacqueline Whitmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15698630827324289405noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277884.post-65780823730810392102009-06-22T15:19:00.006-04:002009-06-23T12:02:52.879-04:00Use Good Pet Etiquette During "Take Your Dog To Work Day"<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhAX5Q3efjSKZch1ndsf_DEeCPmt2shKVcz7XNA59P2OiRx_YcNC6pFFwNmkeERhPX4q5x608r9pI67DeFI0qBKBjkJA0VRXwd6oCQe2XiMZjNzvf9p2F1k9iMEaqgTsY0W8V4ANw/s1600-h/ollie+security+blanket.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhAX5Q3efjSKZch1ndsf_DEeCPmt2shKVcz7XNA59P2OiRx_YcNC6pFFwNmkeERhPX4q5x608r9pI67DeFI0qBKBjkJA0VRXwd6oCQe2XiMZjNzvf9p2F1k9iMEaqgTsY0W8V4ANw/s320/ollie+security+blanket.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5350235096443150290" border="0" /></a>You may think your office is going to the dogs, literally, as thousands of dog lovers celebrate <span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">“Take Your Dog to Work Day”</span> on Friday, June 26, 2009. According to a recent survey conducted by The American Pet Products Manufacturers Association (APPMA), nearly one in five companies in the U.S. allow pets in the workplace. If you’re planning to participate and bring your favorite canine companion to the office, here are some pet etiquette tips to follow:<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Do an office check.</span> Check with management and co-workers to see if anyone is allergic, afraid of or opposed to you bringing your dog to work for this special day. (If there is anyone in your office who fits this description, perhaps they should take that day off!)<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Puppy-proof your work space. </span> Remove poisonous plants, hide electrical cords and wires and secure toxic items such as correction fluid, permanent markers, etc. Any office items in question should be placed out of your dog’s reach.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Bathe and groom your dog before its office debut. </span>The dog days of summer can take their toll on your pet’s appearance. Everyone loves to pet a dog that is soft, clean and well-groomed.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Know your dog’s temperament.</span> Dogs that are aggressive or overly shy should not accompany you to work. Instead, consider bringing a favorite picture of your pooch or a stuffed animal to display in honor of TYDTWDay.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Prepare a doggie bag. </span> Include food, treats, bowls, toys, leash, paper towels, clean-up bags and pet-safe disinfectant (just in case). If you are routinely in and out of your work space, consider bringing a portable kennel for your dog’s comfort, safety and your peace of mind.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Avoid forcing co-workers to interact with your dog. </span> Dog lovers will make themselves known. To avoid pet accidents or if your pet has a sensitive stomach, ask others to refrain from giving your dog treats without your permission. Finally, don’t allow your pet to jump, chew or drool on others. A well-mannered dog is a joy to be around and will help ensure that TYDTWDay is observed next year.<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;">* * *<br /></div><br />My Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, Oliver, comes to the office with me everyday. He loves to sleep at my feet while I work. For more information on Take Your Dog to Work Day, go to <a href="http://www.takeyourdog.com/">www.takeyourdog.com</a>.Jacqueline Whitmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15698630827324289405noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277884.post-14855783230602097352009-06-22T12:06:00.004-04:002009-06-22T12:11:14.055-04:00Tips on Tipping in a RecessionIs it acceptable to skip on the tip in a recession? Is it okay to leave less now that you're making less? See what I have to say on tipping etiquette on CBS Channel 12 News:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.cbs12.com/video/index.php?bcpid=1137883291&bclid=1143359274&bctid=26770525001">Click here to view the video.</a>Jacqueline Whitmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15698630827324289405noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277884.post-24660648919080345272009-06-19T16:45:00.003-04:002009-06-19T16:52:21.407-04:00Five Tips for Cracking the Summer Dress Code<span style="font-weight: bold;">By Mary Lou Andre, Guest Blogger</span><br /><br />Between Memorial Day and Labor Day, offices all over the country tend to get a little more casual. While many professionals welcome the opportunity to shed more formal business attire and be a bit more relaxed in their appearance, many more are unsure where to draw the line. Here are five tips for maintaining a professional image that won't cost you your reputation (or your paycheck!) this summer:<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Think business first, casual second.</span> "Business casual" is actually an oxymoron. No matter the weather, you are wise to think business first, casual second — or never, if that is your preference. Light weight suiting and career separates with conservative necklines and hemlines coordinated with equally professional footwear, tops and accessories are the way to go in warm weather.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Know the code. </span>Before hitting the mall to add some new summer items to your wardrobe, review your office dress code to be sure what you select is appropriate for where you work. For instance, many companies frown on any type of sandal being worn to the office. Be a conformist in a good way by selecting closed-toe summer footwear that honors your personal style while giving you professional clout with the powers that be.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Connect with your inner wisdom.</span> Deep down we all know which clothes make us feel most powerful, credible and business-like. If you have to, separate your summer play clothes from your work clothes and simplify the latter. In many parts of the country, summer is the shortest season of the year. You probably don't need a large collection of work clothes to get you dressed and out the door looking (and feeling!) like a pro.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Get groomed. </span>Don't let your personal grooming routine go on vacation while you're still expected at work. For instance, showing up to any professional business engagement unshaven or with wet hair can signal that you are unorganized, lazy or lack common sense. The best part about personal grooming — it doesn't have to cost a lot and allows you to show respect for yourself, which instantly shows respect for others.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Be consistent year-round.</span> Finally, no matter your work style (or the time of year), there is a lot to be said about being consistent. Anchor yourself into a stable image that represents the most capable image of you every day of the week. You'll brand yourself (as well as the company you represent) as reliable and serious about getting your job done.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Last Word </span><br />Work doesn't stop in the summer months. Your professional image shouldn't stop working for you either. Taking the time early in the season to go through your closet to retire items that no longer work while noting what you need to add to get you out the door faster and appropriately dressed for the day ahead is time well spent. When you shop in your closet first, shopping at the store is more efficient and cost effective.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Mary Lou Andre is a nationally recognized wardrobe, dress code and corporate image consultant, speaker and author. She is founder and president of Organization By Design, Inc., a Needham, Massachusetts-based wardrobe management, fashion and image consulting firm that helps individuals and organizations understand the power of being appropriately dressed in a variety of situations. For more great tips and information, visit </span><a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.dressingwell.com">dressingwell.com</a><span style="font-style: italic;">.</span>Jacqueline Whitmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15698630827324289405noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277884.post-40973524166490745452009-06-16T15:26:00.006-04:002009-06-28T16:45:11.923-04:00The Dos and Don'ts of Hugging Etiquette<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhmQSnYoLRNUO-H9vobzG5HQSNJpCQ3xejoTKo4oJgCkDJG2GNveNJkwBL8OuVh2DhYWAHxLZh67UCCJlOz23dN-hEiF716wN7ucfnKnha1SMBmkko-3tZ3wAC4oDV0fThYLgrXFg/s1600-h/monkeys+hugging.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 212px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhmQSnYoLRNUO-H9vobzG5HQSNJpCQ3xejoTKo4oJgCkDJG2GNveNJkwBL8OuVh2DhYWAHxLZh67UCCJlOz23dN-hEiF716wN7ucfnKnha1SMBmkko-3tZ3wAC4oDV0fThYLgrXFg/s320/monkeys+hugging.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5348015333522170466" border="0" /></a><span style="font-weight: bold;">By Jorie Scholnik, Guest Blogger</span><br /><br />Is saying hello and giving a handshake outdated? Not yet, but apparently hugging seems to be the latest trend and is taking over as a standard greeting among the younger set. Hugging, typically viewed as a sign of affection, and has sparked much debate in schools across the country. In fact, hugging is so popular in some high schools that officials have banned this gesture of affection or imposed the three-second rule.<br /><br />It's amazing how something so innocuous can divide the world into categories: pro-huggers and anti-huggers. Before you quickly place yourself on either side, remember that hugging is a personal choice that varies from person to person. Therefore, especially when in the business world, consider the following dos and don’ts of hugging before you go in for a big one.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Always respect another person's space. </span>An individual’s family background, culture, age and gender play a major role in the acceptance or displeasure of a hug. Usually, like a kiss, you can tell from a person’s body language if they would be willing to receive a hug or not.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Follow the three-second rule. </span>Keep the hug short and avoid placing your arm too low around the other person. Longer hugs have a certain connotation and could have negative repercussions if a co-worker’s spouse or significant other is present.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Pass the sniff test.</span> By sniff, I mean sniffles and smell. If you are sniffling because you are sick, the other person will appreciate not catching your cold. Additionally, if you just finished working out or are perspiring, it may not be the best time for a bear hug. No one enjoys a hug from someone who reeks of alcohol.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Ask permission when you need or want to share a hug. </span>If you ask permission, the receiver will feel respected and have an opportunity to voice their comfort level. It is especially important to ask before you give a giant bear hug to your boss, client or new employee. In these situations, you may want to opt for the age-old handshake. In fact, if you have to ask, you probably shouldn’t do it.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Avoid awkward moments. </span>If you are with a group of people and you know some people better than others, give your new acquaintances a handshake first and then follow with hugs for those you know well. Therefore, you won’t have to guess if your new acquaintances are pro-huggers or anti-huggers. Always be considerate of other’s boundaries.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Consider frequency and occasion.</span> There may be more appropriate occasions for a hug such as when you haven’t seen a co-worker for an extended period of time or if you’re at a holiday party. A hug is not necessary if you see a co-worker on a regular basis.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Jorie Scholnik is currently pursuing her masters and specialist degrees in Mental Health Counseling and Marriage and Family Counseling at the University of Florida. She has been interning seasonally at the Protocol School of Palm Beach since June 2006. </span>Jacqueline Whitmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15698630827324289405noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277884.post-20141227694778876732009-06-06T16:44:00.008-04:002009-06-16T14:42:06.537-04:00Casual Fridays become a casualty of the recessionIn the face of a sluggish economy and almost daily workforce downsizings, some employees are paying more attention to their wardrobe -- convinced they can't look disheveled or too laid back.<br /><br />From power dressing for after-work networking to looking their best for a boss they might see in the elevator, some employees are picking their outfits as if their jobs depend on it. In some offices, casual Friday has become a casualty of the recession.<br /><br />Research suggests dressing well can make a difference. A 2008 CareerBuilder.com survey found 41 percent of employers said people who dress professionally tend to be promoted more often than others in the organization. The bottom line is to practice "next-level" dressing. In other words, dress for the job you someday want.<br /><br />While relaxed dress codes might be nice, casual Fridays often go too far -- as in this very funny episode of NBC's comedy "The Office," where Meredith, played by Kate Flannery, wears a dress that's much too short. (To enjoy, click below and don't forget to turn up the volume on your computer!)<br /><br /><object width="512" height="296"><param name="movie" value="http://www.hulu.com/embed/tJNmwirOWOL4hI-a5xcPHA/628/671"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><embed src="http://www.hulu.com/embed/tJNmwirOWOL4hI-a5xcPHA/628/671" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" width="512" height="296"></embed></object>Jacqueline Whitmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15698630827324289405noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277884.post-90677464812406075612009-06-02T15:46:00.003-04:002009-06-02T16:29:56.183-04:00"Being Nice" Is Back in Vogue<div align="center"><a href="http://www.operationnice.com/" target="_blank"><img src="http://melissaivone.com/images/verynice.png" width="150" border="0" height="133" /></a></div><br /><br />If you ask most people, they will tell you that the recession is a bad thing. I agree. But I also think the recession has created a kind of equality (and humbleness) among millions of Americans. This is a good thing. <br /><br />People are seeking simplicity. There is a yearning for kinder, more gentler times. "We are now in an age of nice," according to Eric G. Wilson, an English professor at Wake Forest University. The Obama administration may be partly to blame. The Obamas have been criticized for being too friendly to some repressive world leaders. After all, who can forget the "touching moment" that Michelle Obama shared with Britain's Queen Elizabeth II? <br /><br />Even teenagers are jumping on the Nice Bandwagon and are being accused of hugging too much in school. Administrators are not so enthusiastic. According the the article, "Schools from Hillsdale, N.J. to Bend, Oregon...have banned hugging or imposed a three-second rule." And does the three-second rule for hugging have anything to do with the five-second rule for eating food that's fallen on the floor?<br /><br />Then there's the blog, <a href="http://www.operationnice.com/">OperationNice.com</a>, that posts articles about good deeds and asks bloggers to take an oath of niceness. The blog was created less than a year ago by Melissa Morris Ivone, a 28-year-old graphic designer in Cinnaminson, N.J., who was inspired after a stranger held the door for her in an elevator. So far, more than 1,100 readers, many of them fellow bloggers like me, have taken her oath of niceness, and have posted an Operation Nice seal of approval on our blogs and Facebook pages.<br /><br />Cafes like the <a href="http://www.qkindness.com/">Q Kindness Cafe</a> in St. Paul, MN, are popping up all around the country encouraging diners to express random acts of kindness. You'll never get a bill at The Upper Room Cafe in Mount Dora, Florida because they survive on donations only. You order, eat, then pay what you can. <br /><br />Yes, being nice has many benefits. Research indicates that people who might be categorized as nice tend to have lower blood pressure and lower divorce rates. Doctors who take an extra few minutes to talk with patients are sued less often for malpractice. And companies that foster a nice atmosphere have higher retention rates. Therefore, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain when you are nice to others. I guess Mom was right again when she said to me growing up, "Kill'em with kindness!"Jacqueline Whitmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15698630827324289405noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277884.post-45183393939877791022009-05-27T17:16:00.001-04:002009-05-27T17:16:17.084-04:00What do you say when your server asks 'How's your meal?' | Jacksonville.com<a href="http://www.jacksonville.com/lifestyles/food/2009-05-27/story/what_do_you_say_when_your_server_asks_hows_your_meal">What do you say when your server asks 'How's your meal?' | Jacksonville.com</a><br /><br />Shared via <a href="http://addthis.com">AddThis</a><br /><br />Jacqueline Whitmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15698630827324289405noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277884.post-42990992213925953102009-05-10T16:42:00.003-04:002009-05-10T17:01:38.253-04:00Catch the Manners Virus: National Etiquette Week is May 11-15, 2009<meta equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"><meta name="ProgId" 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to prevent the spread of bad manners. And civility is contagious. When you speak kindly, think positively and say “thank you,” others will respond in a positive way. Spread a little civility, courtesy and kindness with these simple acts of good manners: <br /><br />Use a little e-kindness: Electronic mail is quick, easy and accessible. Make sure it is thoughtful and thorough. Never send an e-mail when you're angry.<br /><br />Work well with others: A skill taught in kindergarten, working well with others is a life-long goal.<br /><br />Practice saying thank you, please, excuse me and you’re welcome to co-workers, sales clerks, and family members more often.<br /><br />Listen more than you speak. Focus on the other person and what they are saying. Try to refrain from multi-tasking and checking your cell phone or Blackberry when others are talking to you.<br /><br />Spread the touch of a hand-written note: It speaks volumes about you and your leadership skills. <br /><br />Source: <a href="http://www.etiquetteleadership.com/">The Etiquette & Leadership Institute</a><br />Jacqueline Whitmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15698630827324289405noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277884.post-62942178069791534962009-04-02T17:09:00.006-04:002009-05-07T12:36:31.794-04:00Royal Etiquette? Michelle Obama Hugs The Queen<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHfFsNo7s4Wglus8URq3EkvKdbXC7kn7Jk4hObFJStD9tIY5K9ywNAmLhalco7vCu3YneSzxUGIPAm7JNUQtT0QiQ-8s7OlRuViXkFXTpepq_7wNbJ-005S3Vd9289O1OsPGfcMg/s1600-h/queen+and+Michelle+hug.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHfFsNo7s4Wglus8URq3EkvKdbXC7kn7Jk4hObFJStD9tIY5K9ywNAmLhalco7vCu3YneSzxUGIPAm7JNUQtT0QiQ-8s7OlRuViXkFXTpepq_7wNbJ-005S3Vd9289O1OsPGfcMg/s320/queen+and+Michelle+hug.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5320205662791348018" border="0" /></a>When Britain’s Queen Elizabeth II said to the President and Mrs. Obama, “Let’s keep in touch,” no one suspected that she meant it quite literally. When one thinks of the queen, “touchy feely” usually doesn’t enter one’s mind. Until now.<br /><br />Her Royal Highness made it crystal clear yesterday at Buckingham Palace in London that she likes the first lady very much as she gently put her arm around her waist. In general, it is a breach in protocol if someone embraces the queen first. However, in this case, it was the queen who made the first move. Michelle simply reciprocated with a hug that looked like something you would see a daughter give to her mother. This bold move both shocked and warmed the hearts of all who witnessed the warm embrace.<br /><br />Historically, the queen is not known for showing affection in public, or in private for that matter. It’s been said that her son, Prince Charles, complained on one occasion that he wasn’t given enough affection as a child.<br /><br />This “touching” moment sparks the question, “Could it be that the queen is starting to mellow as she ages or does she simply admire qualities in Michelle that she sees in herself?” After all, if you mix brilliance, strength and confidence with a little bit of kindness the two women make the perfect pair!Jacqueline Whitmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15698630827324289405noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277884.post-70460155946025419792009-04-01T20:16:00.004-04:002009-04-01T21:09:08.500-04:00Royalty Etiquette: The President Meets the Queen<meta equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"><meta name="ProgId" content="Word.Document"><meta name="Generator" content="Microsoft Word 12"><meta name="Originator" content="Microsoft Word 12"><link rel="File-List" 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no surprise that President and Mrs. Obama towered over the diminutive, 5’4” queen.<span style=""> </span>As both couples stood side by side, everyone was careful not to touch each other, even by accident.<span style=""> </span>This greeting have been terribly uncomfortable for President Obama as he is known for giving warm and fuzzy pats on the back when he meets a person.<span style=""> </span>Dressed in a conservative black and white dress, Mrs. Obama played it safe and maintained the girlish “fig leaf” position with her hands crossed in front of her body, a position that it not commonly used by confident women.<span style=""> </span>This could also have been a case of nerves.<span style=""> </span>After all, who wouldn’t be nervous meeting the queen?</span></p>
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<br /><script src="http://i.cdn.turner.com/cnn/.element/js/2.0/video/evp/module.js?loc=dom&vid=/video/politics/2009/04/01/ac360.greeting.the.queen.cnn" type="text/javascript"></script><noscript>Embedded video from <a href="http://www.cnn.com/video">CNN Video</a></noscript>Jacqueline Whitmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15698630827324289405noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277884.post-44290591432341250222009-03-13T16:49:00.005-04:002009-03-13T16:56:49.345-04:00How to Fold a Fitted SheetFor years I have struggled with folding my fitted sheets. I was delighted when I found this informative video.<br /><object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/YHTyH2nuFAw&color1=0xb1b1b1&color2=0xcfcfcf&feature=player_embedded&fs=1"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/YHTyH2nuFAw&color1=0xb1b1b1&color2=0xcfcfcf&feature=player_embedded&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object>Jacqueline Whitmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15698630827324289405noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277884.post-90222939014054650812009-02-04T20:26:00.006-05:002009-02-04T20:48:27.565-05:00Top 10 Ways to Create a Cozy Atmosphere for Houseguests<ol><li><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_jkSqsXC72ZqYnHtSKejyhEObr0m7OH6_4JbkmDA-OOM4fOvU1p9iHbmMCSE8vEDPZoGgUqUjuAJGhbjlFjUizOHhelL2lGh_PeJU3QyM_o5u-KCtDGOa-bsaQaOfIUF8wVAbvg/s1600-h/teapot.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 266px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_jkSqsXC72ZqYnHtSKejyhEObr0m7OH6_4JbkmDA-OOM4fOvU1p9iHbmMCSE8vEDPZoGgUqUjuAJGhbjlFjUizOHhelL2lGh_PeJU3QyM_o5u-KCtDGOa-bsaQaOfIUF8wVAbvg/s320/teapot.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5299123654924661234" border="0" /></a><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Place fine soap, mini shampoo, conditioner and bodywash in the guest's bathroom.</span></li><li style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Use linen napkins and linen tableclothes instead of paper napkins.</li><li style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Vary your dinner dishes for each course instead of using matched sets.</li><li style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Have fresh flowers throughout your home.</li><li style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Place local magazines, bottled water, an alarm clock and fine chocolates on the night table beside your guest's bed.</li><li style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Provide a choice of foam or feather pillows.</li><li style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Keep a bottle of red and white wine on hand.</li><li style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Keep regular and decaffeinated coffee and tea on hand.</li><li style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Place a clean bathrobe in the guest's closet.</li><li style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Have music playing when your guests arrive.</li></ol>Jacqueline Whitmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15698630827324289405noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277884.post-51137825691301101702009-01-11T21:34:00.002-05:002009-01-11T21:41:13.795-05:00Biggest Mistake You Can Make When Emailing Your ResumeWant to make sure your resume gets read? Then never send your resume in an attachment unless you're asked to do so. Instead, copy and paste it into your email message. Most prospective employers and employment agencies are reluctant to download documents that might carry computer viruses.<br /><br />More tips: Make the subject line specific and put your name in the subject line. Ex: "David Johnson's resume." Be sure to correct any typestyles that might be lost in the copy-and-paste process, such as boldfaced or underlined text. And make sure you limit each line to 72 characters or less. Most email programs wrap text around at 72 characters. That means any line longer gets cut off and dropped down to the next line -- making your resume look like it was hit by a chainsaw.Jacqueline Whitmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15698630827324289405noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277884.post-50222506945191668972008-12-09T15:53:00.002-05:002008-12-09T15:59:00.540-05:00Social Networking Etiquette in the Technology Age<span style="font-weight: bold;">By: Jorie Scholnik, Guest Blogger </span><br /><br />If I was a betting person, I would wager that you probably checked your Facebook page today, if not multiple times. I say that because according to comScore, Facebook is the fourth most-trafficked website in the world with more than 130 million active users. Currently, more than 30 million photos are updated daily and there are over 55,000 regional, work-related, collegiate and high school networks. It is no surprise that with networking opportunities, more than half of Facebook users are now outside of college and the fastest growing demographic is those 25 years and older. Now, with the mix of college students and professionals being active on the same website, there are several etiquette issues that arise. Here are five tips to make sure that your social networking page is personal yet professional:<br /><br />1. Remember that the Internet is a public space. You should only include items on your profile that you wouldn't mind seeing on the front page of a newspaper. Even with privacy settings, your information is still widely available to employers. Therefore, try to avoid posting racy photos or notes complaining about your boss.<br /><br />2. Ask permission before posting pictures of your friends on your profile. Inappropriate pictures linked to a person’s name can cause embarrassment to an individual both personally and professionally. Keep in mind that because the pictures need to be manually removed by the person, they can be readily available to their potential employers for some time.<br /><br />3. Avoid sending a friend request to people you work with. It could be considered inappropriate and crosses too many boundaries, especially if people want to keep their personal and professional lives separate. As a result of having co-workers as friends, you will always be on the clock and your profile will be a reflection of your professionalism.<br /><br />4. Consider having both a personal page and a professional page. This is a good way to limit who can view each page, separate your profile content and network both personally and professionally. However, note that both of your profile pictures will come up if someone searches for you so both should remain clean.<br /><br />5. Think twice before posting any content on your profile. Your profile is a reflection of your personality, demeanor, friends and professionalism. Once something is posted, people can save it even if you deleted the content from your profile. Because Facebook is so popular, people will form their opinions and judgments about you from the information on your profile.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Jorie Scholnik graduated from the University of Florida in May 2008 and is continuing there to complete her masters degree in mental health counseling. She has interned seasonally at The Protocol School of Palm Beach since June 2006. She is one of the 130 million active users of Facebook and has encountered multiple examples of employers and universities checking students’ profiles.</span>Jacqueline Whitmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15698630827324289405noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277884.post-49548233842010182062008-12-03T15:39:00.007-05:002008-12-03T16:01:09.960-05:00Tip Jar Etiquette Causes Confusion<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjaClU9x1vgdQIkdhrpgW0y_ODmpqk428VRhvUKrnTPx-a2rA9aUYx2nrNLdGwnuV6cBjdnS8PfgprS2VRG56KskfyS9Dtz49i_FCRdtjkqdhylj9vuqhdowO0zT0irYXtIlj-vkg/s1600-h/tip+jar.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 142px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjaClU9x1vgdQIkdhrpgW0y_ODmpqk428VRhvUKrnTPx-a2rA9aUYx2nrNLdGwnuV6cBjdnS8PfgprS2VRG56KskfyS9Dtz49i_FCRdtjkqdhylj9vuqhdowO0zT0irYXtIlj-vkg/s200/tip+jar.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5275671164980859010" border="0" /></a>The recent rise of tip jars at coffeehouses, sandwich shops, and ice-cream parlors has changed the tipping etiquette landscape, leaving consumers confused. Some even believe that the tip jar is an inanimate equivalent of an outstretched hand. I believe that putting money in a tip jar is completely voluntary. However, if I know the person serving me is making minimum wage or less and their income is supplemented by tips, I will usually be more generous. I pondered the etiquette of the ubiquitous tip jar and asked some of my other etiquette consultant friends what they thought would be correct. Here is what they had to say.<br /><br />"When I first saw tip jars I found them egregious, But then I thought, 'If I tip the wait staff at a sit-down restaurant, why not tip the people who serve me at other types of food establishments?' I particularly soften when the tip jar is labeled “College Fund”, and the young people behind the counter are polite and accommodating. Generally a dollar and change drop into the jar, more for some people, such as the young man who manages an ice cream shop near my home. He is so friendly and accommodating! I know he has young children, so there is an incentive to contribute. The second came one day as he was packing my cone with two, chocolate-almond scoops. His wife came in with their two-year and an infant in a carriage—from that point on my tip doubled!!" <span style="font-weight: bold;">Janet Parnes, </span><a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.etiquettefortoday.net/">www.etiquettefortoday.net</a><br /><br />"I agree that putting money in the tip jar is completely voluntary and admit, that I very often do tip as a sign of appreciation. Love the quote referring to the tip jar as the "inanimate equivalent of an outstretched hand." I do believe great customer service needs to rewarded and whether it is in the form of a tip, in the tip jar, or a complimentary customer feedback card, the server is compensated for their fine service. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Lauren Vitalie, The Vital Image, </span><a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.the-vital-image.com/">www.the-vital-image.com</a><br /><br />"I once thought putting a tip jar out was a bit presumptuous and a bit 'tacky.' Today, it is so common that it does not offend me as it did before. The tip I leave is determined by the establishment. I usually give my leftover coin change at Starbucks…the employees are always warm and friendly and I am happy to tip. It is usually 90 cents for a $2.10 iced tea…40% of the bill. Occasionally, if I have exact change, I may not tip at all. On the other hand, this morning I left a $5 tip for a $12 ticket at the IHOP around the corner. It is close to my house and I often call ahead to order something for my son on the way to school. They are always giving us special treatment. This restaurant is amazingly clean, the servers are great, and I like to tip more.<br /><ul><li>If the restaurant offers “curbside” service, I tip 20% of the bill. </li><li>If I sit down and am served, I leave 20-25%.</li><li>If it is a “Mom and Pop” wait in line type place and the service is friendly, I will leave leftover coin change and a dollar bill. </li><li>If I leave a larger tip in any of the above situations, it is because like Pauline, “I am moved by the faces of the people behind the counter”.</li><li>Interestingly, you do not see tip jars at the chain convenience restaurants. Instead, often a charity display will accept your leftover change."</li></ul><span style="font-weight: bold;">Theresa Thomas, Certified Etiquette Consultant, Villa Park, CA</span><br /><br />"I'll contribute all change and a dollar bill. I think it's a little degrading to have a jar (handwritten note, et. al, ) on a counter --especially when food is being passed. However, I am moved by the faces of the people behind the counter. I'm also a sucker for tipping piano players (and any strolling musicians) who play a song I request." <span style="font-weight: bold;">Pauline Winick, Miami, Florida, <a href="http://www.protocolcentre.com/">www.protocolcentre.com</a></span><br /><br />"If I receive good service, I always drop a dollar or two in the jar. I do not feel it is obligatory. Even if it’s only a small amount, I do not feel people should be rewarded unless they do a good job. Sometimes, I feel it is presumptuous of a store/restaurant to have a tip jar."<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Peggy M. Parks, AICI CIP, President, The Parks Image Group, Inc., <a href="http://www.theparksimagegroup.com/">www.TheParksImageGroup.com</a></span><br /><br /> Do you think it is necessary to leave a tip when you see a tip jar? Let me know what you think.Jacqueline Whitmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15698630827324289405noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277884.post-64427233611634127142008-11-09T19:16:00.002-05:002008-11-09T19:21:32.527-05:00The Four P’s to Perfect Holiday Etiquette<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUhaEO1AFIWXarg8tyZIN8ykvjtWPgsTHwnoLVEL7nqJwTAtkatQxxeD18XqRhCDEMaGrDjOmAAwc3rqWmOPxLftT1bU5IWuyyGzbxDTES-Z5wNPhHFc6CARgHguKQIJabpHEphQ/s1600-h/holly+berry.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 156px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUhaEO1AFIWXarg8tyZIN8ykvjtWPgsTHwnoLVEL7nqJwTAtkatQxxeD18XqRhCDEMaGrDjOmAAwc3rqWmOPxLftT1bU5IWuyyGzbxDTES-Z5wNPhHFc6CARgHguKQIJabpHEphQ/s200/holly+berry.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5266817378340132338" border="0" /></a><br />By Guest Blogger: Grace Oforiokuma, Director, <a href="http://www.styleandgraceetiquette.com/">Style & Grace</a><br /><br />When most of us think of the holidays, we generally think of festivities, indulgent eating, the giving of gifts, warm wishes and time spent with family and friends. Whatever the ‘holidays’ mean to you, for the majority of us they are a time to relax and have fun. However, in all the merriment it is easy to let our guard down and our manners along with it!<br /><br />When it comes to good holiday manners I it's wise to observe the four P's:<br /><ul><li>People</li><li>Places</li><li>Politeness </li><li>Presents<br /></li></ul>Where people are concerned always remember cultural and religious differences. Not everyone celebrates Christmas and Thanksgiving. Appreciate and show consideration for other consecrated, religious and commemorative days, in addition to those you recognize. In accordance, it would be inappropriate to give a cooked ham as a gift on a Jewish or Moslem holiday!<br /><br />The place or location of holiday festivities should be respected. If you are invited into someone’s home to share the celebrations try not to drop your food on the carpet, spill your drink or stub out cigarettes in the potted plants.<br /><br />Politeness is critical to harmonious interactions during the holiday periods. Holiday gatherings in close quarters can sometimes lead to tension and arguments between family members. Keeping your cool will allow you to respond to even the most irritating relative (we all have one!) with respect, thereby diffusing a potential holiday blow up.<br /><br />Politeness also bears relation to the manner in which you conduct yourself, for example eating most of the expensive Belgian chocolates all by yourself, or bringing up the contents of your stomach on the front lawn (due to excessive alcohol consumption) is not just impolite, it is plain rude!<br /><br />Holidays often call for the giving of presents. Try to buy appropriate gifts for each person, especially where cultural or religious differences exist. Take your time to choose something that each person would actually use or like to have. Don’t buy gifts that are more suited to you than to the receiver. A thoughtful gift, even though inexpensive, will be more appreciated than the most expensive thoughtless gift.<br /><br />A fifth ‘P’ must be added to include pleasure. While bearing in mind the points above, it is absolutely essential to have an enjoyable and pleasurable time during the holidays. Let your hair down, but not your manners!<br /><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Grace Oforiokuma </span>is the director of <a href="http://www.styleandgraceetiquette.com/">Style & Grace</a>, a leading etiquette and protocol services company based in West Africa, dedicated to the global empowerment of corporations and individuals through personal development. Grace has many years of international work experience, assimilating social and business etiquette and protocols in diverse countries including the USA, Chile, the UK and Nigeria.Jacqueline Whitmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15698630827324289405noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27277884.post-46262227264325236542008-10-25T18:07:00.004-04:002008-10-25T18:20:39.013-04:0010 Blackberry Commandments<ol><li>Thou shalt not take the BlackBerry to any table with food on it or family around it. A BlackBerry is not a fruit, nor does it come from a tree.</li><li>Thou shalt not use the BlackBerry as reading material in the event of insomnia. It will only worsen your situation.</li><li>Thou shalt not BlackBerry in lieu of responding to a child's request (e.g., "Wait a second, I'm reading something").</li><li>Thou shalt not place the BlackBerry within distance of hearing its incessant beeps while at home. It is not a bird.</li><li>Thou shalt not check the BlackBerry as if it were your baby. It will not cry or stop breathing.</li><li>Thou shalt not confuse number of e-mails with self-worth.</li><li>Thou shalt do everything possible to misplace your BlackBerry on weekends. "There's No Place Like Home" will never be the tagline for the BlackBerry company.</li><li>Thou shalt remember that a BlackBerry is not a body appendage. It is a device that belongs in your briefcase or on your desk, not in social settings.</li><li>Thou shalt refrain from bringing the BlackBerry to events involving family interaction. Extraneous dialogue with this contraption in lieu of real conversation suggests addiction.</li><li>Thou shalt never, ever, ever bring the BlackBerry to bed. Do this and you are BlackBuried!</li></ol><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">This was reprinted with permission by Joey Reiman, <a href="http://www.thinkbrighthouse.com/">BrightHouse CEO and Founder</a>. It was originally printed in the November 2008 issue of <a href="http://www.pinkmagazine.com/">Pink magazine</a>.</span>Jacqueline Whitmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15698630827324289405noreply@blogger.com0